by christy
I know that some of our friends would like to have an update on the progress of our adoption of Hope Giver. We can’t really share a lot of what is happening for confidentiality reasons. (We want to be very cognizant of Hope Giver’s right to privacy–and the privacy of her biological family.) On that note, those of you that are familiar with the foster adoption process in your own experience, please feel free to comment on anything you see here that is beyond the scope of what we should be discussing!
That being said, I must tell you of our last visit with her. We had the most incredible time together–Steve and I both had to work, but I arranged my schedule to work earlier in the morning , then Steve went to work when I got home. We both were able to spend some quality time with her–and so did Dylan. She seems to adore Dylan. Her countenance completely changes when he walks in the room–she beams with delight and desires to be near him. And he has the same reaction when he sees her. It is quite incredible to watch. We were able to meet Steve during the day at a local bookstore that had a children’s section with a playroom. We listened to her talk and sing and watched her dance when she heard a song that she liked. “Jingle Bells” seemed to be the song of choice!
She is such a beautiful child–outside yes, but she has a true heart of gold. She is very loving and has a longing to be loved. I would be lying if I didn’t vocalize our desire to be that family that is able to love her on a permanent basis–as they say, to be her forever family.
Until then, we wait for all the pieces to fall into place where they will….and pray that we will be part of what God is doing in this little girl’s life.
We will keep you posted on any changes. Please keep praying for Hope Giver to be placed in a permanent home very soon and that she will feel us holding her close and praying for her each day.
Christy
November 30th, 2007 at 8:40 am
Christy -
It sounds like a very memorable time. I know you watch Dylan with her and feel like God has really bridged an important relationship. The sibling connection between biological and adoptive children is such a miraculous thing.
I can read between the lines a bit and realize that we are walking the same path, you and me. (And Gracie, too.) The love you feel for Hope Giver is all-encompassing and unconditional… which makes it beautiful. To love without expectation is difficult, but it is what we are called to do. (Boy, am I challenged with that :))
Thank you for sharing!
Laura
November 30th, 2007 at 7:02 pm
Laura-
Thanks for your comment. You are so right…watching that connection take place made me completely speechless!
I do believe we are on very similar paths and are being challenged all the time. I think my most intense challenge right now is being able to say goodbye repeatedly. It’s always a good thing when we have that next visit planned by the time we say goodbye, but when we don’t….well, it’s just very hard to let her go. I’m glad you understand where I am coming from
Thanks so much for your thoughtful comments…I am touched by our growing connection to one another!
Christy